I’ve always preferred crunchy peanut butter.
Bought a jar of smooth for my daughter to cook some peanut butter biscuits, and the recipe called for smooth.
I’ve just made myself some toast for breakfast and there are now THREE jars of smooth peanut butter in the pantry.
I have lost the battle somehow.
Is telling me to buy a packet of cigarettes . I wish he would stfu . I haven’t smoked in years, and don’t wish to start again.
I don’t know where it’s come from, but the little arsehole is telling me that by the time it catches up with me, I’ll be dead anyway.
So far, the angel on the other shoulder keeps bopping the devil on the head with a halo.
What little devils sit on your shoulder?
Yes I have diagnosed clinical depression, yes I have been taking medication on & off since about 2003.
No I do not feel stigmatised by it . No I am not embarrassed by it . No I do not keep it a secret .
No I do not seek sympathy.
Now I get the impression that you feel that you can use thisinformation to insult me and make me feel less than a real person . Nowif I did feel that this could be the case I would not have freely giventhis information . You may feel you have a “weapon”.
Now to the point of this thread and what does cause me pain.
The pain I feel is that these weak insults may prompt another memberor guest that is browsing these forums to either delay or not evenattempt to find treatment .
Depression, even a temporary episode, ishorrible when untreated . Something that I would not wish upon anyone atall . Insults and taunts only cause a feeling of inferiority .
A feelingof inferiority by the sufferer, and a feeling in the wider communitythat do not fully understand that those that suffer from it are someonelesser and unable to contribute . Please take into account of what yourjibes and insults do to those you not even be aware of . I have seen thedamage that an “off comment” such as yours can do with those suffering amental illness.
Now if still feel the need to take out any personal “revenge orvengeance” on me, you can send me a pm or I can supply you with an emailaddress where you can send any messages you may have .
And just to befair I promise not to report or send on any messages you care to send.
But once again think very carefully of the affect your comments have on those that maybe suffering and wanting to find help.
I did post a similar response in another thread but somehow the thread was pulled.
Just couldn’t help yourselves could you.
What was supposed to be a well meaning appeal for others to think about what they say turned to shit and got locked.
I hope you’re all proud of ourselves, rather than add anything constructive you had to all try and get the better of each other.
I’m really disgusted, I’d like to say disappointed but in all honesty I’m not.
To all those that got what the thread was about and felt no need to get the better of anyone else, thank you.
What is polite, or what do people consider the right thing to do the morning after.Are you a ‘sneak out the door while s/he is sleeping’ type, or do you wait for them to wake up and stay for a coffee, breakfast etc.I’m curious as i recently got served for ducking out in the morning while he was sleeping .
Now i did leave a note, so i thought he was over reacting, but i was interested in how other people might see it.
I think we should start up a fund for realdeal, as he admitted to being dropped at birth…
This could go to carers or to lawyers to sue the dr who dropped him at birth for malpractice.. .
Maybe we could even sue the dr for damages caused by it.. .
What do you guys think?
The forum supports you, realdeal.
Anybody got any other stories of birthing issues?
I’m fucken sick of reading posts which say – plus 1 or some shit to that effect .
Why doesn’t this fucken site enable you to hoever your fuckem mouse facebook style over the fucken positve and negative and then you can fucken see who plus oned you – so then they don’t need to fucken write a post saying “Plus 1. ” for fuck sake .
This shits me to fucken tears – for fuck sake,
I’m not sure if this topic has been done before, if it has, sorry.
I was just wondering if anyone has had any successful dates or relationships from oasis active recently.
I’m sort of given up and I haven’t been on in months since I had a number of disappointing dates, and haven’t come across anyone I’d be interested in meeting.
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