Girls Should Just Be Happy – Return Of Kings
We all encounter those girls who stick in our minds like a bubblegum pop song . You ll be sitting at a coffee shop reading a good book and without even seeing her you ll feel her presence and turn around . At your favorite club while everyone else is standing around, guys with beers at chest level and girls huddled in small groups, she is lost in her own world dancing like a goddess on the dance floor .
Time seems to slow as you two make eye contact . You go over and start dancing, inhaling her intoxicating feminine aroma as you two intermingle.
I ve been thinking a lot about past lovers who gave me instantaneous and primal desire, the ones who after a night of sex I still couldn t get enough of, and even the girls who I can remember clear as day even though we never spoke . There was the traditionally feminine Eastern European girl I used to see .
The lesbian who kind of looked like Miley Cyrus . The hourglass redhead whom I banged behind the club one night . The Nordic huntress who passed me in a crosswalk once .
Even though I didn t get the chance to talk to her I remember everything about the way she walked . It was like she was the happiest girl in the world.
Then it hit me . I finally figured out what made these girls so different from all the others I d met: happiness and a positive attitude .
That alone made me remember these girls more than the ones who tell me we can t have sex tonight because I ve been having too many one night stands lately , the ones who show up stumbling drunk to a date, or the ones who claim to have attitude in hopes that they re unique.
The girls I remember most may not have embodied traditional femininity, but they sure were a pleasure to be around . Even though I fucked a girl in a back alley she still stuck up for me when her roommate started giving me shit . She apologized with a blowjob and noisy sex later in the night .
The traditionally feminine girl asked me how I was doing every time I saw her and would make me exquisite cappuccinos . The lesbian offered me food and drink making sure I was comfortable even though we both knew it was going to be a one night stand.
It wasn t just those small actions either . I thought back to when I d met them and all of them were smiling, open and seemed like they hadn t a care in the world .
I thought back to the girls who I ve almost forgotten and when I d met them they were borderline angry, bitchy or would eventually start complaining.
I know you girls are out there reading this, looking for another post to hate, another post to ridicule . Stop right now and start thinking about things you are thankful for in your life . Put down your iPhones and smile for once, ask the Starbucks barista how their day is going .
Girls can cruise by with a default negative demeanor so they don t have to own up to the fact that their social skills are terrible . You have no obligation to change because a man tells you to, but if you don t want to end up on Ok Cupid2 with thousands of messages from thirsty simps you could do for an attitude adjustment . Screen your men by what you want in a man instead of what you don t.
Girls: Do the complete opposite of this girl.
This advice goes for men too .
The biggest quick fix for your success with women would be your attitude . If you re happy and positive girls will (for the most part) be the same back . I used to walk around with a permanent scowl for no reason whatsoever .
One day a girl of mine sent me a dirty text as I was walking around town . I looked up with a smirk on my face and girls started smiling back when before they d just look away . When it comes down to it game is just about having a good time so go out there and have some fun.
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About the Author
Western Cancer4 is a biologist looking for the bigger picture of self-improvement and game .
His column runs every Saturday.
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References
- ^ Posts by Western Cancer (www.returnofkings.com)
- ^ Ok Cupid (www.rooshvforum.com)
- ^ Open Letter To Fat Girls (www.returnofkings.com)
- ^ Posts by Western Cancer (www.returnofkings.com)




