Just wanting peoples thoughts on dating someone with a mental illness such as PTSD, would it be a turn off to most men or are their people who are accepting of such illnesses?
This topic can mean a lot of things to different people.
I believe this is now necessary – some will be hilarious I’m sure.
Interpret it as you will.
Why is admin approving so many spammers accounts .
Don’t they check enough of the details ?
I can’t remember what is required to log in but I’m beginning to think the spammers think we are all stupid or something.
How can we as non spammers get rid of them or change things to prevent them from event getting an account?
Feeling on top of the world after 2 long hard months finally got outside recognition for all my efforts and a pat on the back from my boss…feeling really really good
Since a few of us were disappointed to see the other thread go, here’s a new one.
NB: Please do not start shit fights here, you’ve got umpteen other threads for that if you’re feeling so inclined .
Tonight I had a delicious creamy garlic chicken kiev with a massive serve of steamed veggies; honey carrots, broccolini, cauliflower, peas, brussel sprouts, sweet potato and corn .
I’m back at the gym (finally!) so trying to eat a little bit better.
If it was proven emphatically that God never existed and all of the religious texts were just fiction, would chaos ensue?
Who has fallen madly in love with somebody you would ordinarily find unattractive ? Maybe not unattractive, but not appealing . And I mean in a meaningful relationship, not from afar.
It can be looks, or height, or what they do for a living that you found unattractive.
I wonder if men are more accepting, or the other way around .
Or not at all.
We all encounter those girls who stick in our minds like a bubblegum pop song . You ll be sitting at a coffee shop reading a good book and without even seeing her you ll feel her presence and turn around . At your favorite club while everyone else is standing around, guys with beers at chest level and girls huddled in small groups, she is lost in her own world dancing like a goddess on the dance floor .
Time seems to slow as you two make eye contact . You go over and start dancing, inhaling her intoxicating feminine aroma as you two intermingle.
I ve been thinking a lot about past lovers who gave me instantaneous and primal desire, the ones who after a night of sex I still couldn t get enough of, and even the girls who I can remember clear as day even though we never spoke . There was the traditionally feminine Eastern European girl I used to see .
The lesbian who kind of looked like Miley Cyrus . The hourglass redhead whom I banged behind the club one night . The Nordic huntress who passed me in a crosswalk once .
Even though I didn t get the chance to talk to her I remember everything about the way she walked . It was like she was the happiest girl in the world.
Then it hit me . I finally figured out what made these girls so different from all the others I d met: happiness and a positive attitude .
That alone made me remember these girls more than the ones who tell me we can t have sex tonight because I ve been having too many one night stands lately , the ones who show up stumbling drunk to a date, or the ones who claim to have attitude in hopes that they re unique.
The girls I remember most may not have embodied traditional femininity, but they sure were a pleasure to be around . Even though I fucked a girl in a back alley she still stuck up for me when her roommate started giving me shit . She apologized with a blowjob and noisy sex later in the night .
The traditionally feminine girl asked me how I was doing every time I saw her and would make me exquisite cappuccinos . The lesbian offered me food and drink making sure I was comfortable even though we both knew it was going to be a one night stand.
It wasn t just those small actions either . I thought back to when I d met them and all of them were smiling, open and seemed like they hadn t a care in the world .
I thought back to the girls who I ve almost forgotten and when I d met them they were borderline angry, bitchy or would eventually start complaining.
I know you girls are out there reading this, looking for another post to hate, another post to ridicule . Stop right now and start thinking about things you are thankful for in your life . Put down your iPhones and smile for once, ask the Starbucks barista how their day is going .
Girls can cruise by with a default negative demeanor so they don t have to own up to the fact that their social skills are terrible . You have no obligation to change because a man tells you to, but if you don t want to end up on Ok Cupid2 with thousands of messages from thirsty simps you could do for an attitude adjustment . Screen your men by what you want in a man instead of what you don t.
Girls: Do the complete opposite of this girl.
This advice goes for men too .
The biggest quick fix for your success with women would be your attitude . If you re happy and positive girls will (for the most part) be the same back . I used to walk around with a permanent scowl for no reason whatsoever .
One day a girl of mine sent me a dirty text as I was walking around town . I looked up with a smirk on my face and girls started smiling back when before they d just look away . When it comes down to it game is just about having a good time so go out there and have some fun.
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I’ve always preferred crunchy peanut butter.
Bought a jar of smooth for my daughter to cook some peanut butter biscuits, and the recipe called for smooth.
I’ve just made myself some toast for breakfast and there are now THREE jars of smooth peanut butter in the pantry.
I have lost the battle somehow.