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Single Parent Families and Dating. – General Discussion and Dating …

ONE of the fastest growing social groups in Australia is single parents.

DO you prefer to date another single parent (if you are one) and hope to pool your resources OR do you look for someone with ‘less’ baggage – so that you can get a fresh start ?

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According to the 2011 census, there are more than 902,000 single parents with children under 15.

(There are, of course, even more single parents when the definition is expanded to include at least one child over the age of 16 )

This category of Australian families is up 10 per cent, or 79,000, over the 2006 census estimate . Traditional families with two parents, where all children are under 15, were up 7 per cent to 2.5 million across the same period.

By this measure, close to one-quarter of families with young children are now headed by a single parent.

And, of course, the overwhelming majority of single-parent young families are headed by women: 743,000 or 82 per cent of lone-parent families in 2011.

Single-parent families headed by men numbered 159,000 in 2011, up 19,000, or 14 per cent, over the previous five years.

This compares with a 7 per cent growth rate for single families headed by women.

One the fastest growing social groups in Australia is single-parent families headed by a man, where the children are all under the age of 15.

This may reflect a shift in legal thinking about custody.

It may reflect generation X and generation Y men’s determination to remain connected to their children’s lives.

It may reflect the fact an increasing proportion of women may be the household breadwinner and continue that primary role after separation.

Whatever the reason, the fact male single parents are growing at twice the rate of female single parents suggests a powerful gender-based social shift is under way . The orthodoxy of the single mum is being challenged by the rise (from a low base) of the single dad .

But where do these single dads live, and are local services as prevalent for their needs as they may be for single mums?

Across the nation, 18 per cent of lone-person young families are headed by men.

But in the Melbourne suburb of Montrose in the Dandenong Ranges, and in the Brisbane suburb of Banyo, north of Brisbane airport, this proportion reaches 26 per cent.

In other cities, the single-dad factor tops out at 25 per cent of single-parent families in Perth’s Lesmurdie and at 24 per cent in Sydney’s beachside suburb of Cronulla.

Single dads seem to prefer low-cost, edge-of-town locations where there is space for physical activity.

Single mums, on the other hand, cluster in very different parts of the city.

At a national level, 82 per cent of single-parent young families are headed by women.

But in the Melbourne suburb of Mernda, and in the Adelaide suburb of Ferryden Park, this proportion reaches 92 per cent of single-parent families.

Indeed, it is not uncommon for about nine out of 10 single-parent families to be headed by a mum in places such as Miller in Sydney’s Liverpool, Reedy Creek on Queensland’s Gold Coast, Nedlands in Perth, Prospect Vale near Launceston and Palmerston on the edge of Darwin.

Single mums also cluster in low-cost locations often associated with public housing or new housing estates.

It is odd and perhaps more than a little unfortunate that the single-mum and single-dad hot spots are so removed from each other; surely there’s a social synergy to be had from getting these groups closer together.

References

  1. ^ External link (www.theaustralian.com.au)

My Friend Was Feeding False Dating Stories Of Me To Bloggers …

Yvonne Nelson

Yvonne Nelson

You know how we were beginning to think Yvonne Nelson was dating everyone and breaking up with everyone ? Well you didnt know we thought that, but we were.

Anyways, Yvonne Nelson has come out to say that a friend of hers (a guy) was responsible for feeding stories to bloggers that they are dating to get some hype around himself . Yea she s not very happy about it, and she aired it out via twitter.

Now to recap there have been stories recently linking Yvonne Nelson to Ice Prince, Iyanya & Dammy Krane .

You wanna guess who s responsible ?

We have a prime suspect, but we wont say .

You do the guess work :)

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Army chief: Embrace women or ‘get out’

By Matt Smith, CNN

updated 4:28 PM EDT, Sun June 16, 2013

STORY HIGHLIGHTS

  • Lt . Gen . David Morrison says sex scandal hurts Australia’s army
  • Women are “vital” to the army, he says; if you don’t like it, “Get out”
  • Morrison says he’ll be “ruthless” in rooting out offenders

(CNN) — Faced with a sex scandal in his ranks, the chief of Australia’s army delivered a blunt message to his troops: Treat your female comrades properly or “get out.”

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Gen . David Morrison announced last week that three soldiers had been suspended and he was weighing action against five others implicated in the distribution of videos he called ”demeaning, explicit and profane.” In a follow-up statement posted on the service’s YouTube page1, Morrison told soldiers that female troops “are vital to us maintaining our capability now and into the future.”

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David Morrison: “I will be ruthless in ridding the army of people who cannot live up to its values.”

“If that does not suit you, then get out,” he said. “You may find another employer where your attitude and behavior is acceptable, but I doubt it . The same goes for those who think that toughness is built on humiliating others.”

Australian women began serving in auxiliary units and as nurses in the early 20th century and were integrated into the armed services in noncombat units in the 1970s and ’80s . They were allowed to join combat units in 2011, and female troops “have proven themselves worthy of the best traditions of the Australian army,” Morrison said.

“No one has every explained to me how the exploitation or degradation of others enhances capability or honors the traditions of the Australian army,” he said in his message to the troops. “I will be ruthless in ridding the army of people who cannot live up to its values, and I need every one of you to support me in achieving this.”

Australian news outlets reported last week that at least 17 soldiers circulated video of themselves having sex with women .

The videos were shared without the women’s knowledge .

Some of the material was distributed over military computer networks, and those under investigation include a lieutenant colonel and a major, Morrison told reporters on Thursday.

The distribution dates back to 2010, and another 90 people “may have been on the periphery” of the group’s e-mail exchanges, he said .

Military investigators and the New South Wales state police are conducting the probe, and Morrison said he had apologized to some of the women involved.

Daughters and moms now consider rape before applying to military2

References

  1. ^ YouTube page (www.youtube.com)
  2. ^ Daughters and moms now consider rape before applying to military (www.cnn.com)

Hundreds join fight to save Territorial Army regiment Shropshire Star

More than 1,100 people have signed a petition supporting a threatened Territorial Army regiment, which has a base in Shropshire.

Defence ministers are considering proposals to split up The Royal Mercian and Lancastrian Yeomanry, a Territorial Army regiment dating back to 1794. The regiment, which is made up of Shropshire troops at the regiment s headquarters in Dawley Bank in Telford and four squadrons with the Staffordshire, Worcestershire and Warwickshire soldiers based in Dudley, could be split to allow for the creation of a Scottish Yeomanry, due to defence cuts. The Dudley base is home to A Squadron, which is the only remaining TA Royal Armoured Corps Squadron based in the West Midlands.

It will mean the loss of about 100 soldiers in the Midlands including in Telford and Dudley . And it comes despite Government plans to double the number of TA soldiers nationally to 30,000 over the next five years. The petition against the axing of the RMLY has been set up by soldier s wife Hannah Bragg.

The mother-of-three, whose husband Maj Tom Bragg leads A Squadron, has taken up the fight to petition ministers in Whitehall. Mrs Bragg, 38, who lives in Buckinghamshire, says it would be a tragedy if the regiment was disbanded . She said: These men and women have ordinary jobs and ordinary lives but give up their spare time in evenings and weekends to be in the TA to protect this country we live in.

The petition can be found at: epetitions.direct.gov.uk/petitions/494801

References

  1. ^ epetitions.direct.gov.uk/petitions/49480 (epetitions.direct.gov.uk)

Dating someone with PTSD – General Discussion and Dating Stories …

Just wanting peoples thoughts on dating someone with a mental illness such as PTSD, would it be a turn off to most men or are their people who are accepting of such illnesses?

Eagle Forum Blog: Norway army to draft girls

Reuters reports1:

Norway’s parliament voted overwhelmingly on Friday to conscript women into its armed forces, becoming the first European and first NATO country to make military service compulsory for both genders. “Rights and duties should be the same for all,” said Labor lawmaker Laila Gustavsen, a supporter of the bill. “The armed forces need access to the best resources, regardless of gender, and right now mostly men are recruited.” Norway has been at the forefront in the fight for gender equality, introducing measures such as requiring all public limited companies to fill at least 40 percent of their board seats with women .

On Wednesday the country celebrated a century since Norwegian women won the right to vote. Women make up half of the current government, and opposition leader Erna Solberg is expected to become Norway’s second female prime minister in elections later this year, according to opinion polls which indicate her Conservative Party and its allies will win a parliamentary majority. “This is historic .

For me it is fantastic to make history, for the armed forces and for women,” Gustavsen said.

Fantastic for women ? Yeah, Norway is some sort of feminist utopia . Let’s just hope that NATO keeps defending them, and they don’t have to fight any wars .

Besides, this isn’t the kind of military draft that you might be expecting:

The change is not expected to force women to serve against their will but should help improve the gender balance.

Not serve against their will? !

My guess is that even if they do serve, they won’t have to crawl in the mud or fire guns.

References

  1. ^ reports (www.reuters.com)

Lets talk about cunts – General Discussion and Dating Stories …

What sort of cunts do you like. . How do you like your cunts?

My favourite type of cunt is a person who reports another member for being too fucking smart..

My other favourite type of cunt is a person who deletes someones account for no reason… . well for very little reason. .

I can think of 100 more reasons to delete the accounts of some other loonies on here…

So I have tomorrow off – General Discussion and Dating Stories …

Should I stay in my room and wank all day to nice tasting innies – or catch a ride with my boss to the next town for lunch and go karting?

Army knew of sex ring years ago

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Army chief lays into force

Scathing video warning posted online as Army chief David Morrison leaves little doubt about his views on another ‘demeaning’ military sex scandal.

The Australian Defence Force hierarchy knew an exploitative internet sex ring was operating within its ranks almost three years ago but did not involve police until the middle of last year, it emerged on Saturday.

Fairfax Media asked Defence when the Australian Defence Force Investigative Service (ADFIS) began its investigation of the matter . An Army spokeswoman confirmed it first became aware of the unfolding scandal in September 2010.

NSW Police has stated that Kings Cross Local Area Command established Strike Force Civet in July last year – after being alerted in June.

Denial: Defence Minister Stephen Smith claims the military were not made to go public.

Denial: Defence Minister Stephen Smith claims the military were not made to go public. Photo: Alex Ellinghausen

The latest revelation exposes a period of 21 months during which ADFIS conducted an internal investigation before approaching NSW Police for help.

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Details of the ADFIS investigation, including its length, when it started, those responsible for conducting it and its findings, have not been made public . The Department of Defence did not respond to repeated requests for comment on Saturday.

Two years after a cadet was publicly exposed broadcasting himself having sex with a female counterpart on Skype, the Australian Defence Force has once again been rocked by sex abuse allegations, this time involving at least 17 male officers – including a lieutenant-colonel, the sixth highest rank in the army.

Calling themselves the Jedi Council, the sex ring ”picked up” women in locations such as airport lounges and bars, then filmed them performing sexually explicit acts.

The ADF went public with the revelations on Thursday when the Chief of Army, Lieutenant-General David Morrison, announced three personnel had been stood down and 14 others were being investigated in relation to ”demeaning, explicit and profane” emails .

He also confirmed a brief relating to the three sacked personnel had been forwarded to the Commonwealth Director of Public Prosecutions.

Defence Minister Stephen Smith has since denied the military was forced to go public because it was about to be exposed by other agencies involved.

An ADF spokeswoman said investigators had simply needed a period of time to ”do what they needed to do” without triggering potential ”adverse effects”.

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Fuck off Oasis Community Admin – General Discussion and Dating …

The admins deleted my account – probably the usual suspects reporting me, I would expect nothing less.

But does the admin actually read before deleting someones content, let alone deleting their account?

I am a genius with the keyboard and to be insulted in such a way gets me miffed as a mother fucker.

I am the dopest rapper that ever logged on here .

I am a philosopher, a poet, a comedian, a counselor, and so much more.

(One sec, need to get over myself a little………………………. .

Okay back to it..)

So just get fucked admin.